How to Win Friends and Influence People
A classic introduction to showing interest, listening and handling disagreements with consideration. Focuses on the everyday behaviours that help relationships develop.
COMMUNICATION · 25 BOOKS
Learn to listen more carefully, express yourself clearly and navigate difficult conversations.
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A classic introduction to showing interest, listening and handling disagreements with consideration. Focuses on the everyday behaviours that help relationships develop.
Explores why some conversations connect while others miss each other. Encourages attention to the kind of conversation people are trying to have.
Tools for discussions where opinions differ, emotions run high and the outcome matters. Explores how to keep a difficult exchange open and constructive.
A framework for expressing observations, feelings, needs and requests with more care. Encourages empathy while making room for honest, clear communication.
Practical approaches to impromptu communication, listening and organising a response. Useful for meetings, introductions and unexpected questions.
A collection of specific suggestions for introductions, rapport and social situations. Choose approaches that fit your personality rather than following every script.
Explores direct feedback alongside concern for the other person. Most relevant to managers and working relationships.
Examines feelings, identity and differing interpretations in conflict. Helps shift from proving a point towards understanding what is happening.
Introduces a small set of questions for everyday coaching conversations. Encourages curiosity and helping others think through their next step.
Discusses friendship, conflict and shared meaning in couples. Offers prompts for understanding each other and working through disagreements.
Explores emotional connection and recurring cycles between partners. Encourages conversations about vulnerability and attachment.
Examples and exercises extend the nonviolent communication approach to everyday situations. Useful for practising rather than only learning the concepts.
A framework for separating people from problems and exploring options. Useful for agreements at work and in everyday life.
Explores courage, vulnerability and clear values in leadership. Connects trust with difficult conversations and accountable behaviour.
Explores emotional experiences and the language used to describe them. A resource for reflection and more specific conversations.
Reflections on connection, identity and belonging. Useful when agreement and acceptance feel like the same thing.
Examines shame, courage and the risks involved in showing up honestly. A perspective on connection at home and work.
Explores feelings, relationships and recurring patterns between parents and children. Offers a starting point for more thoughtful family conversations.
Practical examples for responding to feelings, cooperation and everyday conflict with younger children. Useful for parents and caregivers.
Examples and exercises about feelings, cooperation and family communication. Encourages connection alongside clear expectations.
Explores everyday relationship difficulties and ways to understand your responses. Useful for examining patterns in close relationships.
Explores attention, curiosity and seeing beyond a first impression. Encourages deeper questions and more generous listening.
Practical ideas for conversations, connection and interpreting social situations. Useful for trying more deliberate ways to engage with people.
Explores emotional awareness, self-regulation and social interaction. Connects how we handle feelings with how we relate to other people.
Uses negotiation stories to introduce tactical empathy, labelling and calibrated questions. Useful for preparing a difficult conversation while keeping the other person’s perspective in view.
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With Matt Abrahams
Expert conversations about communicating clearly, handling nerves and connecting with other people.
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With Jefferson Fisher
Short communication lessons about responding calmly, setting boundaries and handling disagreement.
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With AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak
Conversations about social skills, confidence and building stronger connections.
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With Kwame Christian and guests
An interview archive about negotiation, conflict and approaching difficult conversations with confidence.
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With Dave Stachowiak
Expert conversations about listening, giving feedback and communicating as a leader.
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